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Poll results: Do you cancel youth group for a football game?

Since the Vikings are in the NFC championship game tomorrow, I've had a couple parents and students ask me if we're canceling sr. high youth group because it conflicts with the game. Some are even a little upset that we're still having youth group. Since I think teens are already given way too many excuses to put spirituality behind everything else, I don't want our church to be part of enabling that. It's not that I'm anti-football or even that I don't think ministry can flex for current events. We cancel youth group for the Super Bowl, but for other games? It just doesn't feel right to me. God always comes first, especially before a football game. Our standards for teens spiritual growth are already so low! I'm sure we'll have a small crowd at youth group tomorrow night, which is fine with me. It's not important that we have a large group, it's important that we do the right thing for the right reasons and bring glory to God through it all. I'll be more than happy to focus on the students who are there.

Earlier tonight I asked on Twitter,
"Would you cancel youth group so people can watch a non-Super Bowl game instead?"
Got a variety of answers. See the screenshot below for a summary. Good input and a lot of different opinions.

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Woah, I'm going to Haiti in 3 weeks... for real!

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Yeah... me... in Haiti... in only 3 weeks from now... WHAT?!

Dana and I were planning to be in Texas visiting her family for vacation from February 9-17. It was going to be a great time to introduce Hannah to all our friends in Texas, where we met, dated, got married, and spent the first 6 months of marriage. I was excited about it! I have the time off from church, airfare is purchased, everything is ready to go.

And then earlier this week I got an email from a friend who asked me if I'd be interested in going to Haiti during that time. I talked with Dana about it and we were both kinda like, "Umm, no, we already have plans." I couldn't admit to this person that it was actually vacation, so I beat around the bush a bit.

But as this week went on I was thinking, "Dude, Tim, how self-centered could you possibly be? You have a possible opportunity to go serve people who are in desperate need, and instead you're going to go on vacation?!" Matthew 25 kept coming to mind, "Whatever you do for the least of these, you do it for me." And James, "If anyone knows the good he ought to do and doesn't do it, sins." (That's the downside of memorizing scripture -- the Holy Spirit uses it to convict you.)

Last night this guy emails me again with more details about the trip, says that it's officially going to happen, and asks me if I'm in or out. After praying for about an hour, there was no getting around the conviction in my heart (doh!). When Dana finished with her girl's bible study in the other room, I talked with her about it and she was really supportive even before I told her I was thinking about actually doing it.

So here I am, going to Haiti to help with water and food distribution and some other things instead of vacation. I'm so stinkin' nervous for some reason, but I know it's the right thing to do -- not necessarily what my flesh, in it's very depraved nature, wants to do, but I'm doing what I know the Lord wants and am both excited and nervous at the same time.

Pray for me as I prepare to go. Fortunately my passport still has a couple months left on it, so I'm good there, but I need like a whole arsenal of shots and immunizations. Fun.

There are some other exciting details about this trip that I can't talk about publicly yet, but hopefully by Monday or Tuesday I'll be able to post full details on my blog at http://www.studentministry.org Keep your eye there in the meantime for why this trip is going to be so unique, who I'm going with, and all the other details.

Seminar handout: Web tools for youth ministry

Click here to download:
Web tools for ym.pdf (2.73 MB)

This weekend I'll be at a youth pastor retreat for the Christian Missionary Alliance denomination doing a seminar on, "Web tools for youth ministry." Although we'll probably cover a lot more than what's on this handout, this is what we'll start with and kinda see which direction we go from here.

Any glaring oversights of a service or tool I missed?

Video tribute to missing @CharlieHallBand this weekend

Last night I saw Charlie Hall tweet about a good show he did in St. Cloud, Minnesota, right down the road from me! Wish I had known he was coming because I always enjoyed worshipping with him in a smaller, intimate settings at Irving Bible Church in TX back in the early 2000s and then at Falls Creek camp in OK with the youth group I led during seminary.

As a tribute to missing the show, here's a little video of my old youth group goofing around at Falls Creek in 2003. We went around and asked a lot of different people to read different "lists" just because we were bored, and one of the lucky candidates was Charlie Hall. Sorry, Charlie! Hope this doesn't haunt you 6 years later! :)

Our youth team leader's meeting today

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Had a great meeting today with some of the adult leaders on the youth staff team at my church over lunch today. Shared a lot of fun, encouraging stories and God-sightings, discussed some struggles, I did a brief training, and I promoted the Simply Youth Ministry Conference, pushing them all to attend if at all possible. Since it's in Chicago this year, we can drive and keep expenses down, meaning we can take a lot more people than last year. Hope they come!

Thanks to Kami at Simply Youth Ministry/Group Publishing for the fun conference swag!